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Hi Wai, You still havent let me know what was bothering you. What normal things? ie Dad still putting you down or he touched you? If he ever lay hands on you again, please let me know. Dont worry I wont make a big screen but would advise you. Or was it financial problem ie Mum finding it hard to support you? Or she is nagging you again? Wai, you might not see it now but trust me. Majority of our parents' nagging are most of the time meant well i.e which they think they were right all the time. Of course they are not always right, they just want whats best for their children, according to them. So, we, as children are concerned have to listen and do what they want us to do. Of course, we dont always do what they said and thats how problems start. So, I suggest with your case is concerned, just listen to them (esp your Mum) and analyse the situation properly, perhaps have a second opinion with a mature friend/friend's parent or better still a lecturer/teacher who can give you good advise and then make up your mind before you disagree with your parents. Wai, its always good to talk. You got to learn to relax and dont let your short-temper manipulate your patient. Have your Mum sit down with you when both of you are relax and talk to her, explain the situation to her and make her understand, always compromise and perhaps meet in the middle in order to solve the problem. It is good to get a part time job to help out the shortage of money, of course you must make sure it wouldnt interfere with your studies. How is your course doing? Is it the same course you were telling me about last time we talked. Just be patient and I am sure what you are studing now would pay off one day. Wai, keep writing to me always. Doesnt matter what it is, problem or no problem, just talk to me, even girlfriend's problem or sex's (kidding), anything, anything at all. Please take care of yourself and let me know when its the best time to talk to you. Love youxxxxx




Lai Gu, ur concern is very appreciated....thanks alot.....thanks for the caring......while the time no1 really willing to waste their time on me. Thanks....